What is love? Love is a profound and caring affection
towards someone; it could also pass for a feeling of intense attraction towards
someone
What then is lust? A feeling of strong desire especially
such a feeling driven by SEXUAL desire .Obviously ,this two definitions have palpable
differences , why then do people especially
youths misuse this terms except of course on purpose or clear ignorance .
Is there ever a thing
as young love, should it be young lust?
A cute guy sees a beautiful girl with a nice a**, tells his
guys about her and how beautiful she is; he approaches her, and she probably
likes him and they agree to be a thing after a while (young couple). They do
their thing for a couple of months (if it lasts that long) the guy sees a prettier
girl later with a bigger a** and history repeats itself. And the girl comes
with 'heart break.'
Or it could go this
way:
The girl sees a more handsome guy, or a guy that has more money,
and the initial guy becomes a 'fuck boy'. At least, that's what the after story
will be for anyone who cares to hear her love story. Should there be such a thing as 'heart break' when it concerns youths
especially younger youths?
********LOVE vs LUST*********
I was in my room when my friend began gushing about a fresh
new girl he just met (yet again) and how she loves him too and how they did be
perfect for each other and I was like "you two should go ahead and do your
thing." He said there was a problem and I asked what, in his words
“She’s still a virgin and plans to remain a virgin till she
trusts me well enough” I laughed, I wasn't getting it again .Should that be a
problem if we are talking about love? Except of course he meant lust, 'collect joy' some crazy boys would
call it. If you want to collect joy then find a joy giver joy and be on a steamrolled
ground.
The word love is
a serious issue. If you are not planning a life time of friendship or marriage,
it shouldn't be wagered with, except of course you two know what you are playing.
On a minimum base, a guy sees pretty ladies everywhere and 90% of the time, is
tempted to make a move for a lot of
reasons , could be ;
* To confirm if he still has his charm
* For lustful reasons
* Maybe for love reasons
And 70% of these guys have girlfriends and 40% of the
girlfriends of these guys are in the guys' houses doing chores, trying to prove
themselves 'wife material'(20 yards), not even modern working class wives (like
the one Jennifer Lopez is advocating for), more like the wives of ancient, that
sit home all day doing chores, taking life way too seriously. And It would be
like that till the day the man, sorry,
boy I mean comes home and break up.( Break-up Sounds too serious abi),
Let's use 'end the play' and then
she goes from shoulder to laps crying
heartbreak (as if she knows what heartbreak is) and then meet yet another one
in two months’ time and he promise to
mend the broken heart as a tailor he is. The whole thing is ‘papangolo’ Young
ladies have to understand Zeeworld/Telemundo is purely for entertainment, and
has little to do with real life, especially in Naija.
If you are not open minded on something (which includes
being ready to accept the worse) then don't go for it at all. A lady friend of
mine always gushed to me about how she wanted a certain guy and she finally
did. Two weeks into their friendship, she began gushing about his friend and how
she didn't like the initial guy anymore. I found it extremely funny and laughed
hard. I asked her “how?" and she said, "love shifts."And it has
shifted after one week of gallivanting with an average student (who was
probably taking things too seriously), squandering his pocket money and who
knows how much he borrowed on her behalf. There is a general issue here though
, the issue of guys borrowing to maintain a certain fake standard for their
girl (why not tell her you don't have , after all she loves you, and love
understands , or you are scared she's going to leave your broke a**? Brother, it's love though, but it's your lies
she's in love with ) and it's only going to be a matter of time before she
finds out the truth, leaves you and your debts.
A honest few however can boldly walk up to a girl and say “I
want sex, can we have sex?” And sometimes the girl or guy agrees and it ends
there or they continue or the
guy/girl speculates you won't give an easy pass to that request and they decide
to go through the necessary adventure of love (boyfriend and girlfriend) and
after one week they get fed up and someone taking it way too seriously cries of
heartbreak and begins raining curses like "God punish you." Sorry,
God won't be punishing anybody on your behalf especially since he told you not
to commit fornication (damn! I almost forgot that was a sin😂).
We all should first
set our priorities right, if need be checkup the dictionary meaning of love and
lust, then distinguish
For you in a hurry to get your hearts broken save it for the
matured heartbreaks when you get to a proper age. At least when you cry then,
people will take you seriously and console you.
And the lucky few who are in LOVE, well, I can only wish you
marriage or a lifetime of friendship!
#leavePlayPlay
#NoOneBreaksAnyOnesHeart
#YouBreakYourOwnHeart
Fix yourselves already!!