So my friend kept mumbling "Stupid fool, idiot” and
was frowning really hard, tapping his touchscreen with so much force ,as if he craved
the force to affect the
person he was chatting with and her generation. I became quite inquisitive as to who pissed my buddy on a very nice chilly Sunday afternoon. I didn't want to ask, didn't want to risk hearing ' mind your business', so I began peeping making sure I kept my distance , avoiding any sort of transferred aggression , the last time ended with a hot punch , and he tagged it slip of the fist .
person he was chatting with and her generation. I became quite inquisitive as to who pissed my buddy on a very nice chilly Sunday afternoon. I didn't want to ask, didn't want to risk hearing ' mind your business', so I began peeping making sure I kept my distance , avoiding any sort of transferred aggression , the last time ended with a hot punch , and he tagged it slip of the fist .
My eyes were shrank with confusion as I saw all he typed-"Lol!",
"rotfl", "you killing me bae!". He typed with a rock hard
face. I brought the joke up much later to him and he said: “I had to help her
out with her stupid jokes.”
DECEPTION.....
Why do people deceive people? People deceive people to get a
certain result they might not have gotten normally were they straight forward,
intents being good or bad, it is deception. People could deceive people to please
them, maybe the truth could be unpleasing like “Sharon the soup was perfect,
the salt was just on point." In other words, you mean, the salt nearly
liquidized your tongue.
Could deception be excused even with good intents?
People deceive people to avoid trouble or probably out of fear.
I recall once my mum gave me one of her favorite clothes to straighten up for her , why at it the electric iron inflamed
and burnt part of the cloth ,she came out moments later ready for work and
asked for it , I gave it to her as if all was well and she went in with it . My
heart battled crazily, I stood in the parlor waiting to hear her scream from
her room, sweat filled my palm , I felt like I was on the hot seat on Who wants to be a millionaire(at
least I thought that's how they feel) .I almost fell when I heard her door open
, she came from her room slowly and appeared right at my front with the dress
on , she hadn't noticed the ruin I caused .I looked at the glorified iron burn
at the back of the white blouse , I knew I had to tell her. Was I going to let
her go to work like this? There she was walking graciously to her car probably
feeling on top of the world as she always did whenever she rocked the blouse,
yet only I knew what was up. I somehow didn't mutter the courage to confess out
of ‘fear’ and let her go to work like that....deception from fear. Fear does
not justify a person being deceptive, nothing does. Most people find excuse under the UMBRELLA of 'it was a necessary evil ‘ Is evil even
evil if it is necessary? If it were, the so called “green snakes in green
grass" are excused, after all everyone has a GOOD reason for their action,
everyone has a different definition of GOOD by the way.
Everything is a choice, you choose to be deceptive, you
choose not to, you choose not to choose; it's all about choices.No such thing
as ' I didn't have a choice' (at least in the practical sense), you chose not
to have a choice.
It's not right to deceive people simply because you feel
it's for their good (you could be wrong), don’t make choices for people via
deception .Deception is absolutely unexcused! And need I mention, there is
always a consequence, no one likes to be the fool twice or even once,
definitely things won’t be the same.
You could try being straight forward (no matter how it
hurts) and see some extra bars added to your 'trust bar’....
Yeah, it might not be easy, but you put yourself there,So
take responsibility!